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Some people instead of enjoying the moment those who have no partner (to reconnect with themselves, to realize what they want and what they do not want to be open to meeting people and strengthen the friendships they already have, for a good choice love!) , or with the certainty that the links you are not has a future, they feel an anxiety so great that they made bad decisions (p example or try to return with someone from the past with whom the relationship did not work, accept any such person to be "accompanied " , seek to save the couple even conflicting or harmful, defend the indefensible, the other to find excuses and get on with this bad relationship, etc.).. Search only the positive be accompanied by a person is only a partial picture of what is happening, you have to put everything on the scale to make a mature decision , although this involves staying "alone."
think quietly, or in the worst moments of your life have you been all alone. Look around. There are more than one person you can trust blindly, which is unconditional and will be there to support you, when you need it. Maybe it's someone who was on your side on many occasions, or someone who wants to give him the opportunity ( family member, friend, neighbor, coworker ...)
The fear of loneliness is a terrible adviser in the search for a partner (or partner). You can always choose with whom to share your life, and also to decide if the relationship where you're happy and you can grow, or is exhausted and no turning back. Continue with a dead link or makes you unhappy for not being without a partner, only deepen your inner sense of loneliness. Addressing this "ghost is easier than you think.
Jealousy leads to hate the person envied, while causing admiration affection love for the person admired
envy is to feel sorrow or regret for the good of others, you want to own something from each other and want to get it without emulating what the other has done to achieve it. Admire is regarded with esteem and appreciation for someone or something considered extraordinary or outstanding. Envy
usually generates hatred and resentment toward someone for what they have. The wicked does not seek to analyze how the other reached the object of envy. Rather, it creates the desire or fantasy to take what you have, instead of imitating the behavior that allowed him to get it or buy it.
admire, however, is to recognize, appreciate, assess and evaluate a person and their achievement. Produce, like envy, the desire to own something similar to what you want, but playing the other's behavior to deserve the same. When envy comes to hate the person envied, while in admiration there is affection and respect for the person admired.
The pathological jealousy is destructive and causes emotional distress and negative reactions that can reach the low self-esteem, isolation and depression, or other social pathologies and delinquent behavior.
are the subject of envy, social recognition, fame, prestige, job placement, power, success, happiness, family, children, families and other property and assets of individuals.
we prevent envy and not be victims of it if we substitute this form of be in awe. It's good to want to have or achieve something. We can even see in others what we want.
Once we clarify what we want to be or have, we can begin to work, strive and guide us towards achieving these goals and that every time we go a step we also admired by others.
"The admiration of one person by another is the beginning of a good love"
Seneca
Who do you admire?