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Do you accept as you are?

This time I learned that people have to accept it as it is.

Pretender switch to the other on substantive issues only brings suffering and frustrations, and also generates the other person as poor reception in some way (directly or indirectly) perceive that we are trying to press on matters not want to change. External impositions generate resistance and the opposite result we want to reach.

also learned that we can ask the other person making a minor change, provided they agree to do so. One thing is a good way to ask someone who is less messy, for example, and quite another to try to disrupt its scale of values \u200b\u200bor priorities in life. Attempt to modify aspects of the other's behavior means, in my view, be looking for something that that person is not. We usually

waste time pushing the other to be in certain ways, to react as we want or ruminating about not getting the reaction they wish, without realizing that our spending power is useless, since that person does not have the quality that we strive to attribute . This applies also important issues in the minors. If for example my partner does not like to travel and I will press them to do so and to further the enjoyment, I'm not respecting your tastes - nothing good can come of such pressure. OK

our neighbor means to do so unconditionally, and understand that nobody is 100% as we wish. S i look in the mirror, we find our personality traits that we learn to tolerate and endure every day. Then we use this mirror to realize that those around us are not perfect, and for more than a few things we do not like the end of connecting with the true essence of the other . At this point is where the true connection between people. Unfortunately I learned this afternoon after the sea had already away.

now understood that if there are things the other person really bother me or not compatible in me or make me feel better, or run counter to my beliefs or my way of looking at life, it is best left to follow his path and I continue on my . 's always healthy to know what limits bring them to others and ourselves . The conventional wisdom says, "Take it or leave it" and I think it applies in this also: he accepts unconditionally, or do not accept and let go.

Do you accept people as it is?